当我们想要和陌生妹子聊天的时候，可以采取以下方法：1、搭讪，挖掘共同点；2、“不经意间”让对方“发现”你的金钱、地位、品味，震撼的程度让人爱不释手；3、 “善意的谎言”，无论你怎么吹，都要让对方感到真诚和真实；4、真诚最重要，最好不要说谎。
聊天在别人眼里可能是一个极其困难和复杂的行为。但在我眼里，这真的是一件轻松简单的事情。相信“怎样聊天才能让女人爱上我”这个问题，一定是还在感情路上挣扎的朋友们最想知道的答案。我现在正在系统地教你如何聊天。
我需要和一个女孩说些什么才能让一个女人爱上我？ 我相信这个问题一定是所有还在情感上挣扎的朋友最想知道的答案。事实上，聊天对我来说是最简单的问题。我曾经和很多人聊天，直到我熬夜。在别人看来，聊天是一种极其困难和复杂的行为。但在我眼里，这真的是一件轻松简单的事情。我现在正在系统地教大家如何 chats.
看着这篇文章，你将拥有以下能力：1、不要害怕和女孩 chat. 2、有能力 and girl chat 而不冷. 3、高情商，不肉麻地表白给陌生妹子的能力。 废话不多说，让我们直接进入主题…… 重点：是什么阻碍了你 and girl chat? 让我们回想一下，在尝试与girl chat 的过程中，是什么阻碍了我们与girl 的顺畅chat? 因为你不会说话？绝对不是，我相信你一定有过 and friend chat得 天花乱坠 的经历。因为你害羞害羞？I个人 不这么认为，因为I知道，在you哥们面前，你的一张脸皮有时候会比城墙还厚。那麼，是什么真正阻碍了我們與girl chat呢？
设问：
当你尝试与女孩子chat时，你是否常常会遇到这样的问题：“如果我这么说，我会不会让女生对我产生坏印象？”
或者：“这样的话题够好笑吗？”
原因很简单。我把原因分为两类：
第一类：你受皮卡文化束缚。如果you读过《傲慢幽默法则》，或者you早就收集了惯例，或许say的话，那么大多数时候，在with girl chating 过程中，你chating 的重点都是围绕着“有趣”来and girl chating。一旦you觉得你的answer不好，或许不能let girl觉得有趣，有趣，那么you就会内心感到沮丧。
第二类：根本不知道跟girl say what？
以上两种区别在于：
第一种哥们，在chating 过程中走错了方向。所以，对于这种类型的人，即使他们and more girls chating，他们也无法获得更多成长，因为他们走错了方向。
第二类好友还没有进入chating 过程。这群学生只要找到正确学习方向，就能快速掌握chating 技巧。
接下来，我们将逐步学习三个不同的阶段：
第一阶段——可以and girl chate.
注意1: 无论如何，不要let girl讨厌。
注意2: 不以捡拾为终极目标，只以chate 为终极目标。
训练后的结果：不怕follow-up with a new person, have the ability to follow up with a new person.
培训内容： 和 ten strangers talk in this process, you need to do is simple conversation with them, treat them as ordinary friends, very simple conversations without any purpose or intention.
The reason why we beginners don't know how to talk to girls is that we have a strange purpose and ambition. So when we start caring about it, we will try to please the girls by flattery or other means of attention-seeking behavior which are not suitable for talking with your girlfriend during the chatting process.
Now let's see how you can talk to someone at the first stage:
错误示例 A: "Beautiful lady, would you like us to have a conversation?" (This question makes target feel that you're seeking value from her.)
B: "What do you do?"
技术分析:
A:"You seem cute so I said hello."
B:"Your photo made me think you're an interesting woman."
C: "Just woke up... The weather outside is great! How about you? Do you feel today's beauty?"
At this point, your mind should undergo such transformation:
"Even if I don't understand this goal, pure practice is okay."
When there's no fear of silence anymore and understanding providing topics becomes natural,
then congratulations! You've reached the second stage!
In chatting at this level,
show off your character by discussing family responsibilities,
friendships,
past relationships,
or even business ventures!
As long as they're true stories about yourself.
Here are two examples:
Case One:
"I used to be close friends with someone who founded a studio together.
He had some issues at home but donated money then disappeared for three months before his family faced problems."
"We met again accidentally in another social gathering...
Instead of blaming him directly..."
"I felt responsible since early on..."
Case Two:
"In 2008 our business failed almost completely...
That year I worked three jobs from morning till night...
Then bought bread after work near my apartment market before rushing off for beer...
My only thought was finishing debt payments & helping parents buy houses... Last year I completed that task...
Thank God!"
By sharing these experiences honestly without exaggeration or lies,
your sincerity shines through making others trustable while increasing their affection towards you!
So here concludes our lesson on high-emotion non-cheesy pickup lines shared online!
Remember—Always Be Yourself!
