在这段充满爱意的时刻,我们不仅要准备一束花,还要为未来的幸福做好准备。以下是美国著名专家精心挑选的十五个问题,这些问题关系到你与我共同创造的未来世界,所以我们必须认真聆听,深思熟虑地回答每一个问题。
婚前必答之问1:我们是否愿意成为父母?如果答案是肯定的,那么孩子的抚养权应该如何分配?
婚前必答之问2:我们的职业规划和财务目标相符吗?我们的消费观念和储蓄习惯是否会引发冲突?
婚前必答之问3:我们如何维护家庭和谐?谁将负责处理可能出现的问题?
婚前必答之问4:我们已经详细交流过双方的健康状况,包括心理健康吗?
婚前必答之问5:我们的父母对我们有没有达到预期的支持,他们是否能给予足够的心理祝福?如果他们不能,我们将如何面对这种情况?
婚前必答之问6:我们已经坦诚地讨论了自己的性需求、偏好以及恐惧吗?
婚前必答之问7:卧室里能放置电视机吗?这个小事也是夫妻间沟通的一部分。
marriage must answer the question 8: Can we truly listen to each other and treat each other's thoughts and complaints fairly?
marriage must answer the question 9: Do we have a clear understanding of each other's spiritual needs and beliefs? Have we discussed how to educate our future children and their religious upbringing?
marriage must answer the question 10: Do we like and respect each other's friends?
marriage must answer the question 11: Can we appreciate and respect our partner's parents? Have we considered that they may interfere with our relationship?
marriage must answer the question 12: What is one thing about my family that bothers you most?
marriage must answer the question 13: What are some things that will never make us give up on our marriage?
marriage must answer the question14: If one of us needs to leave their hometown to accompany another person in a different city for work, can we do it together?
marriage must answer the last but not least15th Question : Are you confident in facing any challenges head-on, ensuring your marriage continues to move forward towards happiness.
If you've already thought through these questions or have similar ideas, congratulations! You're ready for your next step towards happiness. But if there are significant disagreements or unanswered questions, perhaps it would be wise to slow down before making such an important decision.